How to overcome negative thoughts? Well first, I am sure that most of you have experienced a situation where you are overly excited about a certain goal and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to obtain that certain something, whatever it might be, but the people around you or are close to you seem to be very skeptical and downright non supportive. At first you might say to yourself "they're just over-thinking" but due to the massive amount of hardships you were going through, you eventually decide that they might just be right, right?
WRONG!
Why would you want to waste the possibility of you achieving something that others thought were impossible but YOU believed in yourself enough that you might just be able to do it? Why would you want to let them pull you down to their "safe, secure zone"? When you are aiming for your goals in life, there are bound to be difficulties and hardships, but that certainly does not mean its not achievable.
I'm not sure if you guys noticed, but life is pretty much like a certain game of wrestling called "Hell In A Cell" (I probably got the name wrong, I'm just writing this from memory). In this particular game, a group of wrestlers are situated inside the ring surrounded by a steel cage. There is only one rule to the game, whichever wrestler that manages to climb up the walls and get through to the other side will be declared the winner. If the wrestler gets pulled down while going up the wall, he'll end up back inside the ring with the other wrestlers keep beating each other up.
You see, the game of life is very similar to this one, whenever someone who believes in themselves enough tries to go after success, there are always a bunch of "wrestlers" who will try to pull you back down, back to the "beating each other to the pulp" ring. But really, the key to really win this game is to persevere long enough and keep pushing for the goal, in this case, to get to the other side of the ring.
Conquering your mind is not easy, I know exactly how difficult it is when almost everyone close to you are trying to persuade you that you just can't do it. My advice to you is this, try to associate more with positive people, surround yourself with the individuals who are helpful and wants to see you reach your goals. How do you find these people? It is really simple, by doing whatever it is that you have to do to accomplish that particular goal that you desire.
You'll start to notice that there are actually a lot of people who are ready to be supportive of you. If you believe in yourself enough you'll find a strong reason why you choose to do it and eventually those people who are not supportive will learn to adapt. How to overcome negative thoughts? Simple. Just keep on doing the things that you think is right and never allow yourself to give up.
WRONG!
Why would you want to waste the possibility of you achieving something that others thought were impossible but YOU believed in yourself enough that you might just be able to do it? Why would you want to let them pull you down to their "safe, secure zone"? When you are aiming for your goals in life, there are bound to be difficulties and hardships, but that certainly does not mean its not achievable.
I'm not sure if you guys noticed, but life is pretty much like a certain game of wrestling called "Hell In A Cell" (I probably got the name wrong, I'm just writing this from memory). In this particular game, a group of wrestlers are situated inside the ring surrounded by a steel cage. There is only one rule to the game, whichever wrestler that manages to climb up the walls and get through to the other side will be declared the winner. If the wrestler gets pulled down while going up the wall, he'll end up back inside the ring with the other wrestlers keep beating each other up.
You see, the game of life is very similar to this one, whenever someone who believes in themselves enough tries to go after success, there are always a bunch of "wrestlers" who will try to pull you back down, back to the "beating each other to the pulp" ring. But really, the key to really win this game is to persevere long enough and keep pushing for the goal, in this case, to get to the other side of the ring.
Conquering your mind is not easy, I know exactly how difficult it is when almost everyone close to you are trying to persuade you that you just can't do it. My advice to you is this, try to associate more with positive people, surround yourself with the individuals who are helpful and wants to see you reach your goals. How do you find these people? It is really simple, by doing whatever it is that you have to do to accomplish that particular goal that you desire.
You'll start to notice that there are actually a lot of people who are ready to be supportive of you. If you believe in yourself enough you'll find a strong reason why you choose to do it and eventually those people who are not supportive will learn to adapt. How to overcome negative thoughts? Simple. Just keep on doing the things that you think is right and never allow yourself to give up.
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